The power of positivity can be an extraordinary thing. For as long as I can remember I have not been the most positive person. I don’t believe it was so much who I was but more my up bringing. Being around negative people from a young age you tend to take on that personality and expand upon it as you grow to adult hood, this is what I did. Recently in the past many months I have been going through an interesting transformation.
I believe it started out with the ideology that if you express positive things and a positive attitude to other people then positive things can happen to them. After some positive influence, one person went back to school, another got back in the workplace while one more started dating again after a bad break up. I hope these people are still succeeding in those avenues I helped guide them down and every day those people will forever be an endearing part of my heart and transformation.
When this new job came to be, my own path of positivity changed and progressed. I am now, lighthearted and free, I smile and am happy and look at life with a new vigor but as I am seeing positivity also comes with a price. To me it is interesting how negative people really are. They see life through a shield of their own selfishness and clouded vision not looking at the world around them but what is right in front of them and (of course as so many do) in hindsight.
So the question is, how does one keep his or her positivity in a world that is consumed with the negative? Just be yourself…. Sounds simple, doesn’t it? As many of us know, it is not so simple, it is a task that is at times beyond the scope of our reach. We wear so many masks through our day, the professional mask we use at work dealing with coworkers and bosses and clients and vendors, it is the only way to keep our sanity and poise intact in an insane world of pressures and lists of things needed yesterday.
The domestic mask we use for loved ones, family, children, wives, husbands… It is being an adult and taking that responsibility that ‘most’ of us adults do. Paying bills, being a support, keeping a moral standing, being a good neighbor, making sure all the housework is done, homework is completed, getting things laid out for tomorrow and etc…
The social mask, this should not be a factor, for we visit friends and acquaintances and you think there are no masks to wear when we are out with friends right? Wrong… We wear these masks because we should be verbally social when we are out, we feel we need to interact with those even if we are not in the mood. We force ourselves to be in places we don’t feel like for the sake of social convention.
If we all just took a moment and be ourselves and find the essence of positivity inside and show it what an amazing life you can have. The idea here is not to only find the positivity in yourself but to share it with the world. There are times I see someone who is having a bad day and one small smile and act of kindness can change their entire mood for the rest of the day and make them feel something wonderful to counter act whatever depressed them that day…
This is not a usual post for me because of the subject matter but it is one feeling that I never want to go away… I will leave you with this… Feel the goodness within yourself, share it with others, embrace the feeling you get when someone smiles back at you and carry that little light of positivity with you throughout your day. People think there is not allot to be happy or positive about but on the contrary life is full of wonder and goodness all we have to do is push through the muck and the mess to find it…